Sex in Marriage
While God create sexual intimacy for pleasure, it can also become a source of conflict and pain. At some point, most couples will face significant barriers in their sex lives. Here you’ll find a wealth of information and practical resources to help you navigate the most common challenges and questions related to sexual intimacy in marriage.
Sexual Pleasure
From The Blog
Five Things You Need to Know About Women, Orgasm & Intimacy
From The Podcast
#262: Experiencing Sexual Pleasure, Part 1
Q&A With Juli
Q&A: Why can’t I orgasm?
Barriers to Intimacy
From The Blog
How To Go From Demand and “Duty Sex” to True Sexual Intimacy
From The Podcast
#528 The 3 Superpowers Your Sex Life is Missing
Q&A With Juli
Q&A: What if I’m not attracted to my spouse anymore?
Sexual Desire
From The Blog
How to say “Yes, Yes, Yes!” after “No, No, No!”
From The Podcast
#534 Four Surprising Things Killing Your Wife’s Sex Drive
Q&A With Juli
Q&A: Why Don’t I Like Sex?
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All Sex In Marriage Resources
What’s Love Poetry Doing in the Bible? (Making Sense of Song of Songs), #587
Masturbation and Widowhood
Transcript: Should Christians Use Birth Control?, #585
Transcript: Does God Care if You Get Botox?, #584
Transcript: When You Want Sex but Your Spouse Doesn’t, #294
When You Want Sex but Your Spouse Doesn’t, #294
How Pornography Impacts Intimacy and Marriage
3 Razones por las que “Fingir” Está Empeorando tu Mala Vida Sexual
Transcript: Sex Therapy: What Is It, and Why Should You Go?, #324
Q&A: Sex Has Never Been Pleasurable in Our Marriage. Should I Just Fake It?
Transcript: Why Telling Your Story is Complex, Courageous and Healing, #353
Transcript: Good Girls, Bad Books: Erotica in Young Adult Fiction?, #579
Q&A: What Should I Do If I Discover My Spouse Looking at Porn?
Transcript: What Your Husband Wishes You Knew About Sex, #126
What Your Husband Wishes You Knew About Sex, #126
Derecho sexual: Qué es y por qué está arruinando tu matrimonio
Q&A: What If I’m Not Attracted to My Spouse Anymore?
Superando la vergüenza y el miedo sexual en el matrimonio
Transcript: #561 Help for Christian Wives Who Don’t Like Sex
#561 Help for Christian Wives Who Don’t Like Sex
Transcript: #559 What if Male Sexuality Is More Complex Than We Think?
Transcript: #558 Christians Need To Change The Way They Talk About Married Sex
#558 Christians Need To Change The Way They Talk About Married Sex
#557 Understanding The Harm of Purity Culture and How to Move Forward
Transcript: #556 Why We Can’t Ignore What Offends Us About Jesus
¿Es necesario el perdón para la sanidad?
Transcript: #555 Can You Have A Great Marriage Without Sex? Juli Answers Your Questions
#555 Can You Have A Great Marriage Without Sex? Juli Answers Your Questions
Transcript: #554 Sex and the Female Body: How to Swap Shame For Celebration
Q&A: We just got engaged. How do we start to prepare for our marriage?
#554 Sex and the Female Body: How to Swap Shame For Celebration
Cómo hablar con tu cónyuge sobre el sexo
Transcript: #552 When You Want Sex More Than Your Husband Does
#552 When You Want Sex More Than Your Husband Does
Transcript: #550 What to Do When Sex is Painful
#550 What to Do When Sex is Painful
Q&A: My spouse never wants to have sex. What do I do?
#547 How to Talk to Your Spouse About Sex
Struggling With Sexual Intimacy? You Might Need A “Sex Break”
#544 What You Need To Know About Sex, Aging and Menopause
Menopause and Sex: What You Need To Know
Lo que necesitas saber sobre el sexo antes de tu noche de bodas
¡Ayuda! ¡Estoy en un Matrimonio sin Sexo!
How To Talk to Your Spouse About Sex
#535 What Men Weren’t Taught About Sex
Q&A: What’s OK for a married couple in the bedroom?
#534 Four Surprising Things Killing Your Wife’s Sex Drive
How To Tell if Your Spouse Is Truly Repentant
Cómo cerrar la brecha entre deseos sexuales desiguales en el matrimonio
How To Rebuild Intimacy After Infidelity
What You Need To Know About Sex Before Your Wedding Night
#528 The 3 Superpowers Your Sex Life is Missing
#228: Intimacy After Infidelity
Q&A: How do I talk to my spouse about sex?
Overcoming Sexual Shame and Fear in Marriage
Q&A: Why can’t I orgasm?
#516 Don’t Skip Foreplay! (and Other Advice from a Christian Sex Therapist)
#515 Is Attraction Sinful? Unpacking Attachment, Safety, Love and Desire
How to Bridge the Gap in Mismatched Libidos in Marriage
Q&A: Why Don’t I Like Sex?
#504 Painful Intercourse, Fake Orgasms, And Aging Sex: Answers To The Most Popular Sex Questions
#503 Lies, Pornography and Sex Addiction Almost Ended Their Marriage, Now They Help Others Find Hope
Dios Dice Que El Sexo Es Para El Matrimonio: Aquí Veremos Porqué
Sexual Entitlement: What it is and Why it is Ruining Your Marriage
#502 How to Understand and Overcome the Challenges of Postpartum Sex
3 Reasons Why “Faking It” is Making Your Bad Sex Life Even Worse
#500 Sex, Faith and Family: Conversations Every Couple Should Have Pre-Marriage
#494 Purity Culture, Men and Sexual Entitlement
Q&A: How Do I Know if My Spouse Is Repentant After a Betrayal?
5 Healthy Ways to Respond to Your Husband’s Porn Problem
Q&A: How Often Is ‘Normal’ for Having Sex Within Marriage?
#454 Mismatched in Sexual Desire? You May Be Closer Than You Think
4 Lies the Movies Told Us About Sex and The Truths You Need to Know
#484 Duty Sex, Feeling Objectified, and Other Reasons Women Don’t Enjoy Sex in Marriage
#480 How to Heal and Rebuild Trust and Sexual Intimacy After An Affair
#479 More Than Just Behavior: Why Your Struggles With Sexual Sin Run Deeper Than You Think
Q&A: Is It Possible For The Woman to Be The Higher Drive Partner?
Q&A: Is It My Responsibility to Meet My Spouse’s Sexual Needs?
#473 Repentance, Redemption, and Revolution: How to Accept the Invitation of Godly Sexuality
Q&A: Past Sexual Trauma Inhibits My Ability to Enjoy Sex. Is There Hope That I Can Ever Heal?
#465 Love Dares: Using Playfulness to Build Sexual Intimacy
#462 Beautiful Union: How Our Sexuality Reveals God’s Heart for Covenant Love
Q&A: How Do I Learn to Trust My Spouse Again After an Affair?
Q&A: Is Sex Necessary For Intimacy?
Q&A: We Have Sex Regularly, but My Husband Never Seems Satisfied. What Do I Do?
Help! I’m in a Sexless Marriage!
#457 How To Build a Flourishing (not Flawless) Sex Life You’ll Both Love
Help! How Much Sex is “Normal” for Married Couples?
Q&A: Is Sending Nudes and Homemade Porn Okay if We’re Married?
#443: Is Your View of Sex and Marriage Gift-worthy?
#439: Pelvic Floor Health 101 (It’s About More Than Just Sex)
Prioritize Sexual Intimacy by Getting Your Bedroom Ready, Part 3
Prioritize Sexual Intimacy by Getting Your Body Ready, Part 2
Prioritize Sexual Intimacy by Getting Your Mind Ready, Part 1
#263: Experiencing Sexual Pleasure, Part 2
#262: Experiencing Sexual Pleasure, Part 1
#421: “God, Sex, and Your Marriage”-Juli Answers Your Questions
#420: Bonus! What Redemption and Sexual Intimacy Look Like in Real Life
#419: Why Sexual Intimacy is About So Much More Than Just Having Sex
#418: What Is Sexual Intimacy Supposed To Look Like in Marriage?
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