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Q&A: Will I ever be able to heal from sexual trauma?

Is the fight to heal from sexual trauma as hopeless as it often feels?

Q&A: How do I not pass sexual shame on to my kids?

How do you not pass sexual shame onto your kids?

Q&A: Why do I keep sinning?

Why do we sin even when we’re trying to stop?

Q&A: Can a single person be truly happy?

Does being single mean being unhappy?

Q&A: How do I talk to my spouse about sex?

How can you begin talking about sex with your spouse?

Q&A: How do I love my child and disagree with their sexual choices?

How do you show love to an adult child while disagreeing with their choices?

Q&A: Why can’t I orgasm?

Juli answers a Q&A about orgasm.

Q&A: Is masturbation bad?

Is masturbation bad?

Q&A: Does my Spouse Watch Porn Because of me?

Is your spouse’s porn problem your fault?

Q&A: How do I Respond to my Kid’s Sexual Questions?

How do you talk to your kids about sexuality?

Q&A: I’m same-sex attracted, am I just supposed to suppress my sexuality?

Does following God mean we have to suppress our sexuality?

Q&A: My Wife Left Me, What do I do?

What do you do when your marriage abruptly comes to an end?

Q&A: Why Don’t I Like Sex?

Why might a woman not enjoy sex?

Q&A: Why is Gender Important?

Why is gender important?

Q&A: How do I Get Past the Shame of Sexual Sin?

How do you overcome the shame of sexual sin?

Making Sense of God and Sex

Learn directly from Dr. Juli Slattery on 3 reasons questions about sex lead to questions about God.   Chances are, you have felt overwhelmed and underprepared to address questions around sexuality and intimacy. This is why the ministry of Authentic Intimacy...

Making Sense of God and Sex: for Members

Learn directly from Dr. Juli Slattery on "Why God Cares About Your Sexuality." Chances are, you have felt overwhelmed and underprepared to address questions around sexuality and intimacy. This is why the ministry of Authentic Intimacy exists: to encourage and equip...

Q&A: How do I Connect with my Emotionally Disconnected Husband?

Got an emotionally disconnected spouse? Hear what Juli says about how to connect.

Q&A: What am I Supposed to do With my Sexuality as a Single Christian?

What does God’s design for sexuality look like when you’re single?

Q&A: Is Porn Sinful?

Is porn sinful?

Q&A: Can Sexual Sin be Forgiven?

Are some sins less forgivable than others?

Q&A: How Do I Love My LGBTQ Friends Without Compromising Biblical Truth? (Part 2)

Is it possible to love your LGBTQ friends without compromising biblical truth?

Q&A: What Does God Say About Divorce?

What does God say about divorce? Juli unpacks this layered topic.

Q&A: Is It OK to Call a Transgender Friend by Their Preferred Pronouns?

Is It OK to call a transgender friend by their preferred pronouns?

Q&A: Are Sexual Sin and Sexual Brokenness the Same Thing?

Are Sexual Sin and Sexual Brokenness the Same Thing?

Q&A: How Do I Know if My Spouse Is Repentant After a Betrayal?

How do you know if your spouse is repentant after a betrayal?

Q&A: How Often Is ‘Normal’ for Having Sex Within Marriage?

How can you know if you’re having sex enough in marriage?

Q&A: What Is the Purpose of My Sexuality as a Single?

Is there still a purpose for your sexuality if you’re a single person?

Q&A: How Can I Love Someone Who Is Struggling with Sexual Sin and Brokenness?

How do you love someone struggling with sexual sin and brokenness?

Q&A: Is Masturbation a Sin?

Is masturbation a sin?

Q&A: Is It Possible For The Woman to Be The Higher Drive Partner?

Are husbands always the higher desire partners?

Q&A: Is God Okay With Me Having Sex With Someone I Love Even If We Are Not Married?

What God think about sex outside of marriage?

Q&A: Is It My Responsibility to Meet My Spouse’s Sexual Needs?

Is it your responsibility to meet your spouse’s sexual needs?

Q&A: Past Sexual Trauma Inhibits My Ability to Enjoy Sex. Is There Hope That I Can Ever Heal?

When trauma is in your past, is sexual enjoyment possible?

Q&A: What Should I Do If I Discover My Spouse Looking at Porn?

What do you do when you discover your spouse watches porn?

Married Sex: Beyond a Sanctified Hook-Up

Forgiveness and the Transformative Power of God: Jason and Sondra’s Story

Forgiveness and the Transformative Power of God: Jason and Sondra’s Story

Q&A: How Do I Learn to Trust My Spouse Again After an Affair?

How do you learn to trust again when your spouse has had an affair?

Q&A: How Can I Overcome the Shame I Experienced as a Result of Purity Culture?

How do you overcome any shame you’ve experienced from purity culture?

Q&A: Is Sex Necessary For Intimacy?

Is sex necessary for intimacy?

Q&A: We Have Sex Regularly, but My Husband Never Seems Satisfied. What Do I Do?

What do you do if your spouse never seems satisfied with the sex you’re having?

Q&A: What If I’m Not Attracted to My Spouse Anymore?

What do you do if you’re no longer attracted to your spouse?

Q&A: Is There Any Hope for Me in My Struggle with Porn?

Is there hope for you in your struggle with porn?

Q&A: Sex Has Never Been Pleasurable in Our Marriage. Should I Just Fake It?

If you don’t enjoy sex, should you just fake it?

Q&A: How Do I Love My LGBTQ Friends Without Compromising Biblical Truth?

Is it possible to love your LGBTQ friends without compromising biblical truth?

Q&A: What Is the Difference Between Sexual Integrity and Purity?

What is the difference between sexual integrity and purity?

Q&A: Is Sending Nudes and Homemade Porn Okay if We’re Married?

What’s okay to do sexually in marriage?

Webinar: Christian Psychology: Discerning when it’s helpful and harmful in ministry.

When people turn to counselors, the three questions they’re asking are: What do I do? Why did this happen? What’s the point?

In this webinar by Dr. Juli Slattery, learn how to address these questions with wisdom and compassion, and know your limitations.

Q&A: How Can I Steward My Sexuality as a Single?

How do you steward your sexuality as a single person?

Q&A: Where Do I Begin Healing?

Where do you start in your healing journey?

Taking Care of Yourself While You’re Taking Care of Your Ministry

This recording is from Mental Health Mondays with Dr. Jennifer Degler. Topic: Taking...

Balancing Family and Ministry Responsibilities

This recording is from Mental Health Mondays with Dr. Jennifer Degler. Topic:...

Webinar: How to Use Your Power to Build Intimacy

What do you do if your husband refuses to get a job? When you don't like the way he's parenting the kids? How do you know when you've become a controlling or manipulative wife? God has given you a powerful influence in the life of your husband - but you have to learn...

How to Recognize and Respond to Ministry Burnout

This recording is from Mental Health Mondays with Dr. Jennifer Degler. Topic: How to...

Setting Boundaries with Difficult People in Ministry Settings

This recording is from Mental Health Mondays with Dr. Jennifer Degler. Topic: Setting...

Webinar Series: Sex & the Single Christian, Pt 1

What Kind Of a Gift Is Sexuality if I Can't Have Sex? Part 1 in this webinar series A fan-favorite "Java with Juli" guest, The Boundless Show's Lisa Anderson, steps in as co-host to help Juli unpack why your sexuality doesn't have an on/off switch called "marriage."...

Webinar Series: Sex & the Single Christian, Pt 2

How To Ditch the Counterfeits & Find True Intimacy Part 2 in this webinar series Therapist and life coach Dawn Jones is back to tell us the truth about counterfeit intimacy and how to recover from trauma like porn, abuse, and even your "friends" on social media....

Webinar: Making Sense of God & Sex, Live Q&A

How do I bring God my heartache over the fact that my daughter is living in a same-sex relationship? Why does God care if my husband and I are having sex or not? Does God really expect me to give up sex, even if I never marry? When you wrestle with sexual pain or...

Webinar Series: Sexual Pleasure: How To Get Your Mind and Body to Work Together, Pt 2

Overcoming Physical Barriers to Pleasure Part 2 in this webinar series Meet Dr. Carol Tanksley, OB-GYN. She has over 28 years of experience and a passion help women understand how their bodies are integrated with their minds, spirits, and emotions. In this webinar,...

Webinar Series: Sexual Pleasure: How To Get Your Mind and Body to Work Together, Pt 1

The Priority of Mutual Pleasure in Healthy Sex Part 1 in this webinar series Juli and Dr. Debra Taylor, a certified Christian sex therapist, discuss the importance of pleasure within the larger picture of sexual intimacy, and how the pleasure we experience during sex...

Webinar Series: Sexual Pleasure: How To Get Your Mind and Body to Work Together, Pt 3

Saying "Yes!" to Sexual Pleasure Part 3 in this webinar series In the final webinar in our series, Dr. Jennifer Degler brings her humor, candor, and expertise to help you understand how to get your brain and your body working together so that you can share the kind of...

Webinar Series: 3 Conversations To Help You Heal From Sexual Trauma, Pt 3

From Sexual Trauma to Sexual Intimacy (It Takes Two) Part 3 in this webinar series In this final conversation, Juli talks with Matt Gutbrod, a sexual abuse survivor, and his wife, Victoria, a marriage and family therapist, about how couples can practice empathy and...

Webinar Series: 3 Conversations To Help You Heal From Sexual Trauma, Pt 2

What Is Sexual Trauma & How Does It Affect You? Part 2 in this webinar series   If you're in Florida, find Aline-Vanya Guillaume at TherapyTerrace.com Sexual Trauma & It's Effect On Marriage an article by Aline-Vanya Guillaume, LPSW Unwanted by Jay...

Webinar Series: 3 Conversations To Help You Heal From Sexual Trauma, Pt 1

Your Abuse Story: How To Tell, What To Tell, & Why It Matters Part 1 in this webinar series Juli Slattery and Dawn Scott Damon talk about the reasons we don't share our abuse stories. We can be accused of lying or exaggerating. We're met with silence. Our pain is...

Sexual Discipleship® and Marriage

Ask Anything: Interviews with Experts Helping couples navigate barriers to sexual...

How To Teach Christian Sexuality to Children and Teens

Ask Anything: Interviews with Experts Talking to kids and...

Why The Christian Single’s Journey is More Valuable Than You Think

Ask Anything: Interviews with Experts In an effort to honor...

Five Things Every Leader Needs To Know About Porn

Ask Anything: Interviews with Experts Rosie Makinney leads Fight For Love Ministries, a team of...

How Do I Help Couples Move Beyond the Purity Narrative to Sexual Intimacy?

Ask Anything: Interviews with Experts Much of the traditional...

These Are the Unique Sexual Issues That Women of Color Face

Ask Anything: Interviews with Experts Dawn Jones, LPC, shares...

Why We Must Remember That Women Struggle With Porn Too

Ask Anything: Interviews with Experts Despite growing...

What Does “Grace Based Recovery” Look Like?

Ask Anything: Interviews with Experts Unintentionally, our approach to recovery from sexual...

How Do I Get to the Heart of Unwanted Sexual Behavior?

Ask Anything: Interviews with Experts Jay Stringer discusses...

How Do I Create Spaces for Leaders Who Are Struggling?

Ask Anything: Interviews with Experts The widespread use of...

Sexual Discipleship® and Single Christians

Ask Anything: Interviews with Experts Healthy conversation around singles and sexuality is a glaring gap in most Christian...

Overcoming Sexual Shame

Ask Anything: Interviews with Experts Joy Skarka shares her journey of finding...

What You Need To Know About Ministry to Women & Sexual Brokenness

Ask Anything: Interviews with Experts There is a growing awareness of the great need...

Why Christian Leaders Must Understand Sexual Trauma

Ask Anything: Interviews with Experts Tim Hein is the...

Sex, Love, and Dating

Ask Anything: Interviews with Experts Dr. Sean McDowell is a ...

Confronting Abuse in the Church

Ask Anything: Interviews with Experts Boz Tchividjian is a...

Should We Use LGBTQ Inclusive Language?

Ask Anything: Interviews with Experts Laurie Krieg is a...

Understanding Complex Trauma

Ask Anything: Interviews with Experts Dr. Heather Gingrich is...

What the Bible Says About Same-Sex Attraction

Ask Anything: Interviews with Experts Sam Allberry is a...

What Is Christian Sex Therapy?

Ask Anything: Interviews with Experts Josh Spurlock is a...

Why Do We Need To Talk About Sex?

Ask Anything: Interviews with Experts Christopher West is the...

How Does the Christian Community Begin To Address Porn?

Ask Anything: Interviews with Experts Nick Stumbo is the executive director of Pure Desire...

How Do I Recognize an Abusive Marriage?

Ask Anything: Interviews with Experts Dr. Ramona Probasco is a psychologist and a certified domestic abuse counselor. She is also a...

Webinar Series: Talking to Your Kids About Sex, Pt 3

Kids & Porn: How and When You Should Talk to Your Child About Pornography Part 3 of this webinar series From questions like, "Mommy, how will that baby get out of your tummy?" to trends on TikTok and Instagram, everyday life is rich with opportunities to connect...

Webinar Series: Talking to Your Kids About Sex, Pt 2

The Birds & Bees: How to Talk to Young Children About Sex Part 2 of this webinar series From questions like, "Mommy, how will that baby get out of your tummy?" to trends on TikTok and Instagram, everyday life is rich with opportunities to connect with your kids...

Webinar Series: Talking to Your Kids About Sex, Pt 1

Teens: Teach Them HOW, Not WHAT, to Think About Sex Part 1 in this webinar series From questions like, "Mommy, how will that baby get out of your tummy?" to trends on TikTok and Instagram, everyday life is rich with opportunities to connect with your kids and share...

Building Intimacy With God Devotional

In the midst of anxiety, fear, or worry, God's Word tells us to fix our eyes on Him, handing over our worries into His care. But what does that look like practically? What if we don’t feel close to Him? How exactly do we build an intimate relationship with Him? This...

Webinar: How Can God Be Good If…?

Our beliefs about sexuality begin and end with our beliefs about God. Is He trustworthy? Is His Word reliable? Why wouldn't a loving God embrace me just the way I am? In this webinar, Juli and Dr. Jo Vitale, a Christian apologist, talk about how acknowledging the...

Webinar: When Marriage Gets Messy (Healing after Infidelity)

You may not be in the middle of an affair, but we all have to deal with sin in our relationships. It's easy to turn to other sources of comfort and avoid having hard conversations with your spouse. As your resentment builds, your heart drifts. Thankfully, Jesus has...

Date Nights In Video Series

Make the most of date nights at home and join Dr. Juli Slattery and her husband, Mike, for this virtual “Date Nights In” series. Each session includes a one-hour video teaching on an aspect of growing closer together in sexual intimacy, live Q&A, and a homework assignment.

Webinar: Pornography: Help for Spouses & Parents

The desires that lead to sexual addiction are not wrong. Men and women who find themselves caught up in porn, reading books like Fifty Shades of Grey, or in a sexual chat room got there because their healthy God-given desires have been twisted. We are supposed to...

Webinar: How to Talk to Your Spouse About Sex

Talking about sex with your spouse is scary... especially when one (or both!) of you is disappointed, frustrated, or resentful about how things are currently. How do you have healthy conversations about sex, when every other attempt has been wrought with tension? ÊHow...

Webinar: The Season for a Savior

Perhaps the best way to remember Jesus this Christmas is to imagine where you would be without Him. In this month’s webinar, we’ll talk practically about managing the tensions of Christmas; from strife in your marriage to losing a loved one to facing...

Webinar: Does Your Sex Life Have Shades of Gray?

Why are some Christians okay with sex toys, masturbation, and cohabitation while others believe it's wrong to kiss before marriage? Whether you're single or married, honoring God with your sexuality means discerning the dangers of both license and legalism in the...

Webinar: The Art of Asking Good Questions

In an era of emotionally charged politics, #MeToo, and gender identity questions, we've all witnessed, and likely experienced, how engaging with others can quickly lead to heated conversations and hurt feelings. How do we talk about difficult things in a way that BOTH...

Webinar: Addressing Tough Topics with Truth & Love

In July 2019, best-selling author Josh Harris (I Kissed Dating Goodbye) announced that he and his wife are separating. The hundreds of comments to his Instagram post mirror how Christians generally respond to difficult issues and brokenness. One person wrote,...