Marriage – Authentic Intimacy

When You’re Attracted to Someone Who’s Not Your Spouse

Unfortunately, many of us have no idea what to do when someone other than our spouse starts to pay attention to us.

#130: Newlywed Sex: Growing Closer (And Getting Better!) With Time

When things don’t go quite how you expected in the bedroom, who can you talk to?

#127: Learning How to Apologize In Relationships

When it comes to apologies, sometimes what we say isn’t as important as what the other person hears.

#61: The Husband Project

Join Juli and guests for an honest, fun, and lively conversation on how a woman can use her God-given power to influence her husband.

#47: Loving Your Husband as You Age

What can a woman do to minister to her husband and protect his dignity while the culture dismisses him because of his age?

#38: When the Honeymoon Is Over

When marriage isn’t everything you thought it would be, how do you respond?

#34: Women Who Are Caregivers

Two brave women share their faith, hopes, struggles and joys of being the caregiver for their disabled husbands.

#31: In Honor of Military Spouses

What are the unique challenges of being a military family?

#26: Spiritual Battle in Marriage

This is a deep conversation, but one that every married couple should hear!

#23: Understanding the “S” Word

What is submission all about?

#13: Insights on In-Laws

Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley join Dr. Juli Slattery to discuss the good, the great, the bad and the ugly aspect of dealing with in-laws.

#100: A Marriage and Faith Wake Up Call

Have you ever gotten to the point where you think, I don’t know if I can do this anymore?

The 5 Love Languages (& Why Your Spouse’s Love Tank Is Still Empty), #599

Knowing a love language isn’t enough. This episode explores how to truly see, listen, and love your spouse well.

The Love Language that Matters Most with Dr. Gary Chapman, #592

Marriage, parenting, or friendships—this episode with Dr. Gary Chapman challenges you to love others with greater clarity and intention.

Unpacking Emotional Baggage: How to Get to the Root of Conflict in Marriage with Dr. Dan Allender, #568

Being vulnerable with your spouse? It’s terrifying. It’s also the best way forward. Learn more from Dr. Dan Allender on Java with Juli.

3 Myths We Believe About “Being One” In Marriage, #567

In this episode, we’re talking about what it really means to “become one” with your spouse. (Spoiler alert: We’re blowing out the unity candle.)

Q&A: How can I help my husband grow up and take responsibility?

What should a wife do when she feels her husband isn’t taking responsibility?

#511 Why You Need to Laugh More

Comedian, author and Pastor Ted Cunningham is Juli’s guest this week, explaining the health and relational benefits of laughter.

#491 Why Debates About Women’s Roles Might be Missing the Point

Dr. Michelle Lee-Barnewall explains why debates on the roles of women often miss God’s heart for His Church.

#478 How To Love And Lead Your Adult Kids With Jim Burns

How do you parent adult kids after they leave the nest? Dr. Jim Burns, president of the organization HomeWord, shares his experience and expertise.

#477 In-Laws or Outlaws? How to Handle The Challenge of Setting Boundaries with In-Laws

When does parental guidance become overreaching interference? How do couples set boundaries? And how do in-laws give kids space to form strong marital foundations?

I Love Being Bitter: How We Grow Bitter and 3 Ways to Overcome

The Bible warns against bitterness, but how do we prevent bitterness from growing in our hearts? Hannah Nitz shares her heart on the blog.

3 Ways To Help Your Wife Feel Fully Known and Fully Loved

My guest on the blog today is my favorite human, Zack Skarka! After I shared my struggle with body image, I invited Zack to tell his side of the story too. If you need to share this blog with your husband, please know that I'll be praying for you! Ask God for wisdom,...

#392: Want To Know Juli and Mike Better? This Is Your Episode!

Get to know the Slatterys.

Resign As Boss: How To Help Your Husband Lead

Are you ready to consider a different approach?

3 Reasons Women Tend To Take Over in Marriage

Author Margo Kaufman once wrote, “The only thing worse than a man you can’t control is a man you can.”

Want Your Marriage To Go the Distance? You’ll Need More Than “Artificial Intimacy”

Why do couples convinced they found “the one” end up divorcing just a few years (or sometimes a couple decades) into their marriage?

Cuando te atrae alguien que no es tu cónyuge

El estereotipo de una relación adúltera en el matrimonio ha sido típicamente la imagen de un marido infiel. El hombre tiene una aventura de una noche en un viaje de negocios o se enamora de su secretaria. Supongo que nunca se nos ocurrió...

Who Takes Out the Trash?

You and your spouse could argue for days about chores, but ultimately it will boil down to these three triggers.

Did He Pass the Test?

Here are four things to remember when you are tempted to test your husband’s love.

Helping Your Husband Grow UP

If, as a wife, you find yourself here, how should you invite him into maturity rather than encouraging stagnation by continuing to “do it all”?

#2: Unleashing the Power of Woman

What’s the difference between having power or being controlling in marriage?

Help! My Husband Annoys Me

I hope it won’t annoy you if I share three of the breakthroughs I’ve had on the journey to an irritation-free marriage.

What’s the Purpose of Marriage?

Recently, a newlywed friend asked me this question. “What’s the purpose of marriage?

Four Christmas Gifts For My Husband

Christmas shopping for my husband is always a challenge. He's a particular guy. He takes hours to pick out a gym bag and days to choose a watch. On my own, I never get it right. He's also the kind of guy who usually buys what he needs and doesn't wait for Christmas....

Webinar: What Your Husband Really Wants for Christmas

"Christmas shopping for my husband is always a challenge. He's a particular guy. He takes hours to pick out a gym bag, and days to choose a watch. On my own, I never get it right. He's also the kind of guy who usually buys what he needs and doesn't wait for Christmas....

#137: Why You Need to Learn How to Lose Arguments in Your Marriage

Conflict in marriage is inevitable. Fighting is optional.

Webinar: When You Don’t Trust Your Spouse

2 Things Every Wife Needs From Her Husband

It helps to understand and communicate what you desire in marriage.

#128: What You Need to Know about the Hearts and Minds of Men

You’ll be surprised to learn what that man or boy of yours is really thinking–and feeling.

#80: Conflict In Marriage

In your marriage, do you fight – or do you just have conflicts?

#75: The Masculinity Factor in Parenting and Marriage

We’re drinking coffee with two guys who know their responsibilities as leaders and who love their wives.

#41: Divorce and Remarriage

Join Dr. Juli Slattery as she discusses two of the most polarizing topics in the church today, divorce and remarriage.

#17: How Kids Change Marriage

It’s time to get real with the issues women face after motherhood!

#121: How Separation Can Strengthen Your Marriage

Separation is often the last step before divorce. But what if it was the first step toward reconciliation instead?

My Husband Won’t Grow Up

What do you do when your husband won’t grow up?

Your Kids Need Your Husband to Be Their Father

Moms have no choice but to accept the invitation to motherhood. But a man; he must be invited again and again into fatherhood.

Who is at the Center of Your Marriage?

What is the most effective glue in marriage?

#475 Why Empathy, Inner Healing, and Teamwork Are at the Heart of Building Intimacy

Sean and Lanette Reed join Juli in this episode to discuss how humility, faith, and empathy, helped them bridge gaps to create true intimacy.

#467 Yes, Your Marriage Is Worth Fighting For (Here’s How to Save It)

Discover how leaning into the truth of the gospel equips us to love better, not just in marriage, but in all our relationships.

Webinar: Keeping the Romance Alive

Webinar: His Brain, Her Brain

Our world is always telling us men and women are not different, but is that true? In this webinar, Dr. Walt & Barb Larimore will discuss how gender differences don't just exist--they are an important part of who God created us to be. You'll also learn how the...

Webinar: Having a Mission-Focused Marriage

How do we write a mission statement for our marriages?

Your Marriage Should Be Fun

Yes, there is a time to resolve conflict and learn about having a sacred marriage, but there is also a time to laugh.

My Husband Isn’t My Best Friend

While being your husband’s best friend may be unrealistic, being his friend is a critical aspect of a healthy marriage.

#52: What’s It REALLY Like? And Other Dangerous Questions Part II

What are the struggles women in different stages of life have when it comes to being a wife?

¿Cómo sé si estoy en una relación abusiva?

A primera vista, parecían una pareja cristiana perfecta.

Superando la vergüenza y el miedo sexual en el matrimonio

¿Qué dice la Biblia sobre el perdón y nuestro bienestar?

Q&A: My Wife Left Me, What do I do?

What do you do when your marriage abruptly comes to an end?

Date Nights In Video Series

Make the most of date nights at home and join Dr. Juli Slattery and her husband, Mike, for this virtual “Date Nights In” series. Each session includes a one-hour video teaching on an aspect of growing closer together in sexual intimacy, live Q&A, and a homework assignment.

#103: As Seen on TV: with Al and Lisa Robertson

Juli is joined by Duck Commander/Ducky Dynasty couple, Al and Lisa Robertson.

#74: What Happiness Means As a Wife

Everyone’s idea of “happiness” in marriage means something different, but is “happiness” the right goal?

How To Be A Good Listener

While nobody notices ears, everyone is attracted to a good listener.

3 formas en las que amar tu cuerpo construye intimidad en el matrimonio

Mientras estaba de pie frente al espejo, conté la cantidad de cicatrices en mi estómago, esparcidas por todo mi vientre como los rayones de un niño pequeño con un crayón. ¿Cómo podría volver a sentirme hermosa, y más sexy? Mis pensamientos fueron interrumpidos cuando...