Dating

How Do I Know He’s “The One”?

How Do I Know He’s “The One”?

Q: Is there one person I'm meant to marry, or should I just choose a good man? A: This question isn't simply a contemplative exercise; it impacts how you approach dating and marriage. However, I think it is the wrong question to be asking. The question of "Is there...

#95: The Dating Manifesto

#95: The Dating Manifesto

Do you struggle with being single? Maybe you've been rethinking that 21-point list of "non-negotiable" qualities you need in a...

#171: Dating in 2017

#171: Dating in 2017

Fifty years ago, the original Dating Game featured a single young woman who got to choose between three eligible bachelors. Not...

#57: Picking A Spouse

#57: Picking A Spouse

If you’re single there are many things to consider before taking the leap into marriage. Anyone can get married, but are you focused...

What Do You Do When the Person You’re Dating Struggles With Porn?

What Do You Do When the Person You’re Dating Struggles With Porn?

Dear Juli, I'm currently in a season of singleness, but I've had two serious relationships with godly guys before this. Both (not right away) admitted to struggling/having struggled with pornography. At first, I was shocked and a little disgusted. Talking to them,...

Sexual Attraction Isn’t as Important as You Think, Here’s Why

Sexual Attraction Isn’t as Important as You Think, Here’s Why

Within the past few months, several different people have posed questions to me about the importance of sexual attraction. - A young woman asked, “I am in a dating relationship with a great guy. We connect on a lot of levels, but I’m not sexually attracted to him....

Six Red Flags You Can’t Ignore in Dating

Six Red Flags You Can’t Ignore in Dating

Are you dating someone and wondering if the red flags you see are reason enough to break up with him or her? Do your friends and family have concerns about the relationship? If you feel in your heart that something is just not right, don’t ignore it. It might be the...

Should You Tell Your Partner About Your Sexual Past?

Should You Tell Your Partner About Your Sexual Past?

Women often ask me about how much of your past is healthy to share in intimate relationships. How much does a potential husband need to know about your sexual experiences and struggles? How much should he tell you? This is one of those issues that relationship coaches...