If you’re desperate to know how to build trust with your kids, protect them, AND restore peace to your home, this episode is for you!
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#307: On the Brink of Divorce
Do you need HOPE for your marriage today?
#40: Bonus! What Do You Fear?
What do you do with the worry that keeps you up at night?
#306: When You Can’t Wait Another Day
What do you do when you find yourself in a situation you don’t like, didn’t sign up for, and can’t wait to be done with?
#301: Staying Connected With the Next Generation
Juli, Linda and Yvette share thoughts for parents, kids and grandparents hoping to improve relationships with the generations before and after them.
#298: Bonus! Sexual Identity is Big, Identity As a Child of God is Bigger
In this episode, Juli continues her conversation with Laurence Koo.
#296: An Insider’s Story of Human Trafficking
Juli’s guest today is a trafficking survivor who now helps people better understand the underground world of human trafficking.
#295: We All “Desconstruct,” It’s Reconstructing that Matters
Join us for a conversation about why it’s okay—and even good—for us to wrestle with our faith and ask God hard questions.
#291: Will You Trade Your Comfort Food for The Comforter?
Juli and her guest talk about how fasting from sugar (or whatever yourun to) hones our hunger for Jesus, the only One who can break strongholds.
#289: How to Choose Unity (Even When You Disagree)
Unity among followers of Jesus doesn’t mean we all agree, it means we choose to show His love to each other despite our disagreements.
#288: Max Lucado Says #MeToo
As a survivor of sexual abuse, Max Lucado has a compassionate response to the #MeToo and #ChurchToo movements.
#286: How to Make Time to Make Love
Join us at the coffee shop for laughter, encouragement and practical things you can do to make intimacy a priority in your marriage.
#285: Loving Without Compromise
A conversation that will take you one step closer to seeing (and loving) your same-sex attracted friend or transgender neighbor as Christ does.
#55: When Marriage Won’t Get Better
What do you do when your marriage isn’t what you want it to be, and your spouse won’t work on it?
#284: Be a Truth Teller
Juli and Ashley Abercrombie talk about why our stories are valuable and how they are one of the greatest gifts we have to give others.
#281: Growing Closer Through Conflict
Juli and her guest dive into why healthy conflict is one of the best ways to build intimacy with your spouse.
#280: When Submission Becomes Controlling
Juli and her guests talk about what can happen when we misunderstand what the Bible says about our roles as men and women in marriage.
#279: Why You Feel Shame When Your Spouse Cheats
Join us to hear where to find help, what healthy boundaries look like, and how to begin to rebuild trust and intimacy in your marriage.
#278: Aging with Enthusiasm & Grace
We talk about how our perspectives change with age, the benefits of being “the older woman” and how to grieve the losses that come with aging.
#277: Children, Teens, and Sexual Abuse
What constitutes abuse? When do you report it? Juli and her guest tackle these tough questions and more in this Java with Juli.
#276: Parenthood, Exhaustion & Avoiding Sex
Find out how to hold on to intimacy while parenting, how to bring God into the conversation about more kiddos, and what to do when you disagree.
#275: Finding Freedom from Unwanted Desires
Will you sit awhile with your brokenness? It can be a roadmap to healing.
#274: Vulnerability, Infidelity & God’s Redemption
For Jessica McDaniel, infidelity as a woman meant double the shame.
#273: Tell Someone You’re Broken
If you’re ever going to heal, you have to tell someone you’re broken.
#272: From Sexual Exploitation to Freedom (Harmony’s Story)
Pull up a chair and join us for a remarkable story of God’s healing power and redemption.
#271: The Truth (and Lies) About Infertility
One in seven couples struggles with infertility –and it’s easy to make some pretty hurtful assumptions about them if they’re not public about it.
#269: Loving Jesus in the Season You’re In
Pull up a chair for wisdom & encouragement with Juli and her guest, Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth.
#268: BONUS! When God “Wakes Up” Your Love Life
In this BONUS episode Juli and her guest discuss the connection between our spiritual lives and our sexuality.
#266: Your Marriage, God’s Design
Be challenged to think about marriage in a way that transcends what you hope to get out of it.
#265: The Hard (and Hopeful) Truth About Losing a Spouse
God created our bodies to become one in marriage in a very physical and neurological way.
#260: BONUS! Confused About Sexuality? We Understand
If God’s word is clear on this issue, why do so many great minds disagree?
#259: Our Marriage Survived Painful Sex
Join Juli Slattery & her guests for a story of commitment, surrender, and discovering God’s design for sexuality.
#258: Your Questions About Pornography
Dr. Juli Slattery and her guest, Jonathan Daugherty, answer YOUR questions about pornography and marriage.
#254: Sex, Race & Healing: How We’re the Same and Different
We have a lot to learn from one another!
#253: Making the Gospel Beautiful Through Relationships
How do we foster relationships that show the world that the Gospel is not just beautiful, it's also believable? Join Juli...
#252: Finding Your Voice
Join Juli and Sandi Patty for a conversation about embracing God’s healing and restoration.
#251: Praying with Honesty and Abandon
Want to go deeper in your intimate relationships? Join us for Java with Juli.
#249: Overcoming Differences With Your Spouse
How to stay crazy in love when your spouse drives your crazy.
#33: What’s It Like to Be Married to Me?
Have you ever asked yourself, What’s it like to be married to me?
#241: Women Struggle With Porn Too
Do you think women don’t get addicted to porn? Think again.
#240: Birth Control & Family Planning
Juli and her guest discuss ethical issues surrounding birth control and family planning. We don’t have all the answers, but we know where to look.
#237: BONUS! Reconstructing Intimacy After Breast Cancer
Kim Harms on surviving Breast Cancer and reconstructing not just the physical, but also the hidden, deeper parts of herself.
#235: How the Purity Movement Hurt Us
In this episode, Juli brings truth and compassion to the imperfect purity message of the 90s.
#233: Understanding Your Man
Juli sits down with our friend Jonathan Daugherty to help you better understand your man, his design and his sexuality.
#232: When Sexual Abuse Happens At Church
When sexual abuse happens in church leaders are (historically) more likely to defend the powerful than protect the wounded. How can YOU change things?
#227: Couples Therapy For Intimacy Issues
From sexual addiction to sexual anorexia, a good therapist can help you find freedom from shame, fear and past experiences.
#48: My Controlling Spouse
If you are fearful or hesitant to share true thoughts with your spouse, you may be in an unhealthy pattern with a controlling spouse.
#226: Culture, Technology & Your Child
If raising kids isn’t hard enough, throw smart phones, social media and video games into the mix and you have every reason to bury your head in the sand.
#225: How To Find the Right Guy
Juli sits down with sisters and authors Bethany Baird & Kristen Clark as they discuss a refreshingly new and Biblical approach to navigating your love life.
#224: Sexuality & Surrender
On this Java with Juli, Juli sits down with Matt & Laurie Krieg to hear what they’ve learned about surrender and sexuality in their marriage.
#223: Counseling: When & Why You Should Go
Marriage counseling sounds intimidating… and expensive. So why should you go?
#215: Miscarriage & Infertility
Dr. Juli Slattery is joined by two brave women who give voice to those who have struggled with infertility and miscarriage.
#206: BONUS! Rebel Parenting
On this Father’s Day episode of Java with Juli, Juli sits down with Ryan & Laura Dobson, co-founders of Rebel Parenting.
#205: My Husband’s Addiction Saved My Life
Listen to an amazing story of God’s redemptive power and healing when a pornography addiction came to light.
#204: Managing Your Expectations in Marriage
Juli talks with Jerusha Clark about what to do when your expectations aren’t met in marrisge.
#202: Childhood Trauma and How It Impacts You
This conversation will show you how trauma not only occurs in relationships, but also finds healing there.
#201: Healing From Abuse and Sexual Trafficking
Healing from abuse and sexual trafficking is difficult, but possible.
#200: Listening So People Will Talk
Join Juli and her guest as they discuss how you can become a better listener.
#105: Out of the Shadows
Meet two strong survivors of church leadership abuse as they discuss the signs and settings that may put you, or your children, at risk.
#197: A Pornography Addiction in our Marriage
Sanj and Kay Kalra share how pornography addiction affected their marriage, and how they found Christ in the midst of their brokenness.
#194: Enjoying Date Nights With Your Spouse
How to make time for dates, initiate good communication, and learn the importance of reconnecting regularly without kids.
#18: When You Don’t Like Your Body
A conversation about struggle and self-worth that will help you evaluate what you’re believing about your past and bring you into a brighter future.
#59: Pulling Back the Shades
Juli and guests discuss underlying issues in our culture around female sexuality, and how women’s questions are answered in the book Pulling Back The Shades.
#106: Aging Men and Sex
Learn why some men find their identity in their sexuality, and how a wife can have significant impact during this important time in their relationship.
#60: An Interview with Francine Rivers About Erotica
Join Juli as she has a candid discussion with one of this generation’s most popular Christian romance novelists, Francine Rivers.
#12: Loving Your Husband As You Age
The challenges of married life change as we grow older, and very few people talk about them.
#122: How Christians Can Respond to the Orlando Tragedy
On today’s Java with Juli, join Dr. Juli Slattery and her guest, Dr. Christopher Yuan, to learn how you can and why you should.
#120: What to Do When Your Husband Doesn’t Want to Grow Up
Today Dr. Juli Slattery and her guests address this difficult situation that many women find themselves in.
#116: How to Love Your Husband with Your Whole Heart
How to keep your heart open, even during tough times, so that you can whole-heartedly love your husband.
#113: Why Friendships In Marriage Are Important
Juli, Linda, and Hannah discuss the importance of married couples having other married couples in their lives.
Raising Gender-Confident Kids, #591
Juli and her guests explore how to raise kids who feel grounded in their God-given identity in a world full of confusing messages about gender.
Feeling Distant? How to Build Emotional Intimacy in Your Marriage, #589
Juli and guest Gary Thomas dive into the often-overlooked side of sexual intimacy: emotional connection in marriage.
Don’t Try This Alone with Toni Collier, #586
Hear encouragement and practical wisdom on finding safe people, breaking toxic patterns, and walking with God and others toward healing.
When You Want Sex but Your Spouse Doesn’t, #294
Ever feel like you’re the only one in your marriage who wants to have sex? Join us for a conversation about high vs. low desire in marriage.
Sex Therapy: What Is It, and Why Should You Go?, #324
Juli sits down with certified sex therapist Josh Spurlock to explore what Christian sex therapy really is—and what it isn’t.
How To Trust God With the Hardest Parts of Your Story, #573
Discover how surrender is one of the most courageous acts of trust—and the beginning of real healing. Grab your Java and listen in!
Surrendered Sexuality: Why God Wants More Than Just Your Behavior, #572
What if God asks you to surrender not because of what He wants to take from you, but because of what He wants to give?
4 Identity Traps That Are Keeping You Stuck, #571
Discover why finding your identity in Christ isn’t about changing your behavior—it’s about knowing Jesus, and letting Him redefine who you are.
The #1 Thing That Defines You (And It’s Not What You Think), #570
We’ve spent decades in the church asking, ‘What does God say about sex?’ The more important question is: What does God say about you?
God’s Design for Sexuality: Teaching Kids to Stand Firm & Love Big, #569
Raising kids in an LGBT-affirming world? You don’t have to choose between truth and love. This episode equips you to give your kids both.
Unpacking Emotional Baggage: How to Get to the Root of Conflict in Marriage with Dr. Dan Allender, #568
Being vulnerable with your spouse? It’s terrifying. It’s also the best way forward. Learn more from Dr. Dan Allender on Java with Juli.
AI & Porn: The Attachment Crisis No One Sees Coming, #566
We’re exploring the impact of modern porn, including its ties to fantasy, gaming, and a distorted view of intimacy. (Don’t despair–there’s hope!)
#564 Why People Turn to Porn and How to Break the Cycle
Troy and Melissa Haas share their expertise around pornography addiction and what it takes to overcome it.
#563 Practical Advice for Talking to Kids About Sex and Culture
James Talbert, Josh Miller, and Chelsey Nugteren share some practical advice for raising surrendered kids in our current cultural moment.
#562 The Best Way to Stop Fighting in Your Marriage
In this special session from Reclaim 2024, Brad Rhoads shares what helped cut fighting and elevate fun in his marriage.
#560 Can Biblical Churches be LGBTQ-friendly?
Pastor Evan Wickham joins Juli to share lessons he’s learned and what his church is doing to lead biblically with clarity and love.
#556 Why We Can’t Ignore What Offends Us About Jesus
Rick Lawrence, author of “Editing Jesus”, joins Juli to discuss how many American Christians make Jesus into an image other than Himself.
#550 What to Do When Sex is Painful
Jess Setiz, a trauma-informed pelvic health practitioner, shares her story and how she’s helping women enjoy pleasurable, pain-free sex.
#549 What the Latest Research Shows About Porn
Nick Stumbo unpacks the surprising results of a recent study conducted by Barna on pornography use, and shares potential solutions.
#547 How to Talk to Your Spouse About Sex
Dr Corey Allan breaks down why discussing sex can be challenging for married couples, and what husbands and wives can do about it.
#545 George Barna: Parenting and Discipleship in a Sexually Chaotic World
Dr. George Barna, America’s foremost faith and culture researcher, joins Juli to talk about how to effectively discipleship our kids.
#544 What You Need To Know About Sex, Aging and Menopause
Dr. Debra Taylor and Dr. Michael Sytsma talk all things menopause, and share how husbands can support their wives at this pivotal moment.
#543 How the Old Testament Reveals God’s Heart for Women, Sex, and Covenant Love
Dr. Sandra Richter, author of The Epic of Eden, brings a rich and refreshing perspective to women, God, and the Old Testament.
#540 A Pastoral Perspective on Supporting Those with Gender Dysphoria
Pastor Sam Ferguson joins Juli to get practical about loving the hearts of hurting people while staying rooted in God’s Word.
#539 The Impact Of Shame And How To Overcome It
Curt Thompson, MD, author of “The Soul of Shame”, joins Juli to explain what shame is, why we experience it, and what to do with it.
#517 How to Beat Loneliness and Cultivate Deeper Friendships
Jeff Kemp joins Juli to talk about what we need to do to cultivate deep, long-lasting, and life-altering friendships.
#514 How Deconstruction and Divorce Rocked a Young Couple’s Life
Chris and Stephanie Teague, the musical duo behind Out of the Dust, share how their marriage fell apart and how God put it back together.
#503 Lies, Pornography and Sex Addiction Almost Ended Their Marriage, Now They Help Others Find Hope
How do porn and sex addiction really affect a family?
#500 Sex, Faith and Family: Conversations Every Couple Should Have Pre-Marriage
Are you ever really ready for marriage? Are there certain conversations couples should have prior to engagement? Scott Kedersha weighs in.
#494 Purity Culture, Men and Sexual Entitlement
The purity narrative failed men too. Noah Filipiak unpacks some of the harmful ideas passed on to men in an effort to protect purity.