Lyschel Burket: Hope and Healing for Wives for Sexual Intimacy After Infidelity

Online Coaching Intensives are for women and men who are seeking help on a specific issue or who have completed one or more Online Book Studies and are looking for their next step.

Time and Dates: Tuesdays, 8-9:15 p.m. ET,  Oct. 24 – Dec. 12 (8-weeks)

Cost: $350 per person

Description: Lyschel Burket, CPC (APSATS) and executive Director of Hope Redefined, will be teaching this 8-week master class for women looking to find healing and hope with sexual intimacy after infidelity. Expect the class to be full of interaction, discussions, practical application, and action steps. Lyschel will have you thinking, chatting, and laughing while you learn how to:

  • creating real intimacy in all areas of your relationship
  • embrace the connection between honesty, self-acceptance, and assertiveness
  • take inventory of your safety in all areas of life
  • recognize the pattern of rupture and repair in all relationships including our relationship with God
  • discover and re-establish trust with yourself, your partner, and God
  • identify the difference between vulnerability and intimacy


Deadline to apply is October 10. After this date you will be notified as to whether or not you were selected to join this group.

Online Coaching Intensive Outline

Week 1: Introduction and Pyramid Introduction

  • Pyramid of Intimacy 
  • The Journey to Healing and Hope
  • 7-Layer Cupcake

Week 2: Truth/Honesty

  • Facets of Honesty
  • Self-Acceptance and Honesty
  • Knowing and Speaking Your Needs
  • Moving Forward in Truth

Week 3: Safety 

  • Seeking Safety (AIH manual)
  • Establishing Safety (AIH manual) – Safety Inventory: Emotional, Physical, Financial, Intellectual/Mental, Sexual
  • Using Boundaries to Build Safety (Boundaries Lesson)

    Week 4: Forgiveness 

    • Rupture and Repair (taken from HILL Group manual) – Luke 22:54-62, Matthew 26:47-56, John 21:15-18, Genesis 50:15-21
    • Trust and Forgiveness: A Non-Linear Relationship

    Week 5: Trust

    • Job Assignments
      • Husband = rebuild trust
      • Yours= forgiveness
      • God = healing
    • Where Trust Needs to be Rebuilt
      • With Yourself
      • With your husband
      • With God
    • How Trust is Rebuilt
      • With Yourself
      • With Your Husband
      • With God 
    • Love Languages and Accountability Behavior

    Week 6: Vulnerability 

    • Why Vulnerability Matters
    • Ways to Build Vulnerability

    Week 7: Intimacy  

    • Intimacy Cupcake 
    • 7-Layer Cupcake
    • Areas of Intimacy
      • Emotional
      • Spiritual
      • Sexual/Physical

    Weel 8: Needs Assessment & Next Steps 

    • What Do I need to heal? 
    • How can he help me? 
    • What do I need from the Lord?

    Learn from an Expert

    Connect with Others in Similar Situations

    Gather Resources

    Online Coaching Intensives Details

    Guided Materials
    • Live weekly Zoom meetings
    • PDF of resources from the expert
    Safe & Confidential Groups
    • Private online group
    • 11 people max, 8 people minimum
    • Available to anyone over the age of 18
    • Authentic Intimacy is committed to creating an environment where people can grow in their faith in Jesus Christ and pursue wholeness and healing. To keep this God-honoring space safe and welcoming to our community, Authentic Intimacy, in its sole discretion, reserves the right to cancel a membership or remove someone from a group if they exhibit behavior or language deemed inappropriate.
    • Price: $350 per person
    • AI members receive a 10% discount (Be sure to use your member code at check-out.)
    • Sales of Online Coaching
      Intensives are final and not refundable unless the group does not reach the minimum number of participants.