A Biblical Approach to Gender

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Blog: “What’s the Purpose of Your Sexuality, Really?”

Blog: What’s the Purpose of Your Sexuality Really?

#160: Why God Created You to be Sexual

Most of us don’t ever wonder about the purpose of sex. It’s something we desire, something we do, and for some of us, something we avoid. But why did God create us to be sexual anyway? In this episode, Hannah turns the tables on Juli and asks her about why God designed us with the anatomy, the physiology and the emotional drive to be sexually intimate with another person.

Guest: Hannah Nitz

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#313: The Greatest Love Story

From beginning to end the Bible tells a story about marriage. Woven through chapter and verse is a story of covenant love between Jesus (the bridegroom) and the Church (his bride). And it is so important to your Father that you understand this story, that he etched it right into your body (your sexuality). Join Juli and her guest Christopher West for a conversation about how our bodies proclaim the love and redemption of Jesus.

Guest: Christopher West

“Our Bodies Tell God’s Story” by Christopher West

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#462: Beautiful Union: How Our Sexuality Reveals God’s Heart for Covenant Love

What if sex and gender are not as arbitrary as many people tend to think? Is it possible that God has woven holy significance into our very DNA as gendered, sexual beings? In this episode, Juli sits down with author Joshua Butler to talk about his book, “Beautiful Union”, and the ways we can see God’s gospel message evidenced in everything from the beauty of a sunset to our own sexuality.

Guest: Joshua Butler

Josh’s Website: https://joshuaryanbutler.com/

Josh’s Book: “Beautiful Union: How God’s Vision for Sex Points Us to the Good, Unlocks the True, and (Sort of) Explains Everything”

Blog: “Purity Culture: Lose the Lies and Keep the Faith” by Dr. Juli Slattery

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#117: How Your Sex Life Is Connected to Your Spiritual Life

An early theologian once wrote, “We know that when a couple has sexual intercourse, the Holy Spirit leaves the room.” If you were raised in the church, you might agree—and not be so sure you’d even want Him there! After all, is there any time you’re feeling less “spiritual” than when you’re having sex? But in fact, the Bible suggests just the opposite is true. Join Juli, Linda, and Hannah on this episode of Java with Juli as they talk about why sex in marriage is not only beautiful, it’s holy.

Guests: Linda Dillow & Hannah Nitz

Book Study: “Passion Pursuit”

Video Series: “Date Nights In”

Java Pack: Taking Back the Bedroom

Book: “Rethinking Sexuality”

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#358: Sexuality, Spirituality, and Why We Settle for Counterfeit Intimacy

Have you ever turned to Netflix instead of pursuing sex with your spouse? Have you turned to Instagram instead ending your day by talking with God and learning His voice? Your sex life and your spiritual life have more in common than you think! In this episode, Juli talks with Mo (Isom) Aiken about the parallels between our spirituality and our sexuality, and our human inclination to settle for counterfeit versus authentic intimacy.

Guest: Mo Aiken

Book: “Fully Known: An Invitation to True Intimacy with God” by Mo Aiken

Java with Juli #213: Sexuality & the Conversations the Church Forgot (AI exclusive content)

Blog: God’s Healing Stinks

Sermon: People, I’m Not Your Moses Message by Francis Chan

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#297: Finding Freedom in the Midst of Brokenness

Many gay Christians feel they must either deny their sexual feelings in order to be accepted by God or embrace the idea that God accepts them–just as they are.  For most, neither of these options bring complete freedom or satisfaction. Is there a better way? In this episode, Juli’s guest Laurence Koo shares how he wrestled with God over his unwanted same-sex attraction, and how he found freedom to follow Jesus completely –fully accepted and loved, same-sex desires and all. Grab your java and join us!

Guest: Laurence Koo

Webinar:  “Pornography: Help for Spouses & Parents” (AI Exclusive)

Book: Grace-Based Recovery: A Safe Place to Heal and Grow by Jonathan Daugherty

 

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#298: Bonus! Sexual Identity is Big, Identity as a Child is Bigger

In this episode, Juli continues her conversation with Laurence Koo. Join them as they discuss the tension created when so much of our identity gets wrapped up in our sexuality.  They’ll talk about how to walk with others in this tension, how to love and engage with your child who is same-sex attracted, and how the life of a single Christian following Jesus is rich in intimacy, relationships, and service.

Guest: Laurence Koo

Blog: “Can I Be Godly and Gay” by Dr. Juli Slattery

Java with Juli: #448 When Did Sexual Identity Become a Thing? (And Why Are We Obsessed with It?)